You get to decide who you are.

Becoming An Adaptable Person
To be adaptable is to be capable of efficiently adjusting to new situations or conditions.

Becoming A Peaceful Person
To be peaceful is to be untroubled, undisturbed, and unbothered in both your mind and spirit. It is to be solid against adversity. It is to be confident in yourself and accepting of reality.

Becoming A Disciplined Person
Discipline: To be disciplined, is to be one who consistently engages in behaviors to fulfill a specific future purpose regardless of present circumstances.